Post by ***@HeavenPost by Positive Sex FiendPost by Positive Sex FiendPost by Fred HallOn 24 Feb 2006 13:50:09 -0800, "Christopher"
Post by ChristopherActually, bob&carole, yes they would. Everyone at the law office
where I work knows that I am a pedophile and that I am attracted to
children. NONE of them have a problem with it, except for a few that
threatened me and because of that they do not work there anymore, or
anywhere else.
They're in jail, which is where you should be.
You're just making a bad name for yourself, and giving us ammunition
in our fight against sex-haters like yourself.
Give up, you're losing the battle, and you're losing the war. In
fact, you lost a LONG time ago.
You're proud of being a kiddie fucker?
I am proud of being a pedophile.
Why?
Because I am proud of who and what I am. Just like I am proud to be a
white man, an American, I am proud of my job, I am proud of my education, I
am proud of my family and I am proud of being a pedophile.
Pride is a sin.
Pedophilia is a sin.
You, a pedo, has a job?
Do you register as a sex offender?
Does your family know you are a pedo?
You need some serious help!
God help!!!
t Michael t
Michael, a little note:
I think Mr. Fiend may not fully understand the concept of pride, and
may be misusing the word here. Well, I hope that is the case.
Having pride in something that one doesn't or can't chose to be, that
in itself can't accomplish anything to be proud of, such as being a
pedophile, is not a real thing. In some cases, that may actually be a
sign of something that should be treated professionally.
Would you trust the mental balance of someone who is very proud that he
has fingernails? That pride is psychologically invalid.
But if he is proud of how beautiful he's kept them, that's valid, if a
little vain.
With pedophilia, if he's proud of controlling his behavior so as to not
harm children, all the more power too him! He has my sincere
appreciation! But if he's really proud of BEING a pedophile, I would be
very concerned for the children with whom he may have contact, and
would recommend he seek treatment.
I think it is for this, more than anything else, that God views pride
as being sinful. Of course, pride is a major cause of much of the
strife in the world, so, as if He needed it, this does prove God right
about this. Pride in a group, is only to set it above others, to impose
artificial divisions among people. This is VERY harmful!
But then being human, we need a little pride to survive. But it should
be pride in being good, in doing good things, in belonging to groups
who's majority of members do more good than bad. This doesn't apply to
race or sexual orientations, or most other divisive group designations,
and should never be used as motivation to judge others.
Some emotions we can moderate or control, through education and self
awareness. When we should, and don't, that is a sin. Pride is
definitely in this category, but sexual feelings are not. They are not
under the control of a healthy mind, and it should not be a sin just to
have those feelings. Like all that is not part of our will, those
things come from God. It's likely that the authors of the Bible didn't
understand that as much as we do now, and so didn't make this
distinction then, because of that. Maybe they didn't want to make it
too complicated, or possibly thought that people could figure this out
for themselves.
Please remember, that while there is little action without the feeling
and thought that motivates it, not all thought and feelings need result
in actions, especially harmful actions. It is NOT a crime to feel or
think anything, but it can be a crime to ACT on some of those internal
experiences. As human beings, we may judge the actions of men, in terms
of the law, for example, but it is ONLY for God to judge the hearts and
minds of men. Please don't usurp what is His, in condemning what
someone feels, that isn't a matter of choice, be it pedophilia, or love
of chocolate.
Well, you asked for help. Here you see the only kind of help I can give
in the newsgroups, which is information and well considered
professional opinions. Of course it's not enough (whatever is?), but
then, it's better than nothing.
OK, the note didn't turn out to be so little. Not that anyone would be
surprised... :-)
Take care,
Y Not
"Love is everything.
That's really big."